Monday, December 30, 2013

Today's Test Results

Today Tyler and I met with the infusion center manager and chemo nurse. They gave us a lot of good information. A few of the things we learned: no flowers or plants can be brought in because of possible bacteria and fungal contamination. Bummer :(. We also learned that I will have lots of food restrictions! We also learned that I am not going to be allowed visitors for the 1st 14 days after a chemo treatment. I also won't be out and about at all during this time. Please don't be offended if Tyler doesn't let you in! He is very protective and wanting to do exactly as the Doctors have advised. I also had my MUGA (heart) scan today. That involved them drawing some blood and mixing it with a radioactive isotope, then injecting it back in my vein. Then a special gamma camera took pics of my left ventricle working. That number is expressed as a percent and mine is 56%. Normal is considered about 50% so we are good to go! Tomorrow I head to Twin to visit with Dr. Steffens the neurologist. Then rest on Wednesday, work all day Thursday and head back to McKay Friday! Anxious for 2014- Happy New Year everyone! As always we are amazed by your love and support. Please keep the prayers coming!! ~ Melissa I know it has been hard to post comments to the blog but now we have set Melissa up with a Facebook so people can send her uplifting messages. Yay! ~ Nicole

Thursday, December 26, 2013

What's Next...

Melissa met with Dr. Miranda today and is scheduled to start her first found of chemo on January 7th. Dr. Miranda ordered some additional tests on the tumor itself called oncotyping which examines the DNA inside the tumor and checks the level of a tumor suppressing gene. This will indicate the likelihood of a cancer recurrence. If it's high then the 2 drug shorter regimen should be enough, but if the level is low there will be a third drug after the initial two and there will be a longer course of each. She will be having a heart scan called a MUGA scan to see how her heart will tolerate chemo. The Dr. made it very clear to her that once she starts chemo visitors are extremely limited. She is choosing to be very aggressive which means she will be severely compromised. I am so very thankful that she has such excellent and carefully planned care. ~Nicole

Tuesday, December 24, 2013

Merry Christmas from the Davids Family

Our family has been blessed in abundance this Christmas season. We are deeply touched by those who are celebrating Christ's birth by following His supreme example of service. We have truly felt His love in the countless acts of kindness we have been shown. Words are not adequate to express the depth of our gratitude, but please know how truly grateful we are. We are SO looking forward to a new year, and wish you all joy and peace. We are astounded at the blessings we have received, and testify that God hears and answers our prayers. Please realize how much we love you all! ~ The Davids Fam

Wednesday, December 18, 2013

In Melissa's Words

Hey! So brief update: visits today were good. Dr.Ingersoll said exactly what I hoped she would - no radiation necessary! We discussed it at length and she said that the risks would outweigh the benefits at this point so yay!! Also visit with Dr. Shale was great. He is super pleased with the way I am healing. He filled the tissue expanders to the point he wanted today. The actual filling was not particularly painful but such a weird sensation! I am a bit of a sore mama tonight though! In general I am feeling pretty good though- finally over that awful pukey nonsense! So the current game plan remains to meet with Dr. Miranda on the 26th to finalize our chemo plan. Not sure of a chemo start date yet. I go back to McKay on Jan. 3. Dr. Shale will expand me again and I meet with Megan from the cancer society to have a wig fitted and ordered. I'm actually rather excited about choosing a sexy wig :) Dr. Ingersoll told me that my hair will probably fall out about 2 weeks after chemo starts - a new look for a new year! I have been blessed to have excellent physicians every step of this journey. I love and trust every one of them. I am filled with gratitude every single day! As always thank you all for countless acts of service. I am over whelmed by the love and generosity that we have been shown. We have been truly blessed. This will be a memorable Christmas for our family- mostly because of the Christlike love we have been shown! Love and blessings to all. ~ Melissa

Wednesday, December 11, 2013

No More Drain Tubes!

Melissa saw Dr. Shale yesterday and he removed the third and final drain tube, which means that she doesn't have to take the antibiotic anymore! Yay! She was given the okay to return to work and to drive. If you know Melissa, you know she did both today. She didn't work a full day and was pretty tired. It seemed like she felt positive about it, although getting into her scrubs was a challenge! She still has lifting, pushing, and pulling restrictions for at least another 4 weeks. Her incisions continue to heal well. Next Wednesday she will see Dr. Ingersoll (radiation oncologist) where she will find out the recommendations for radiation. She will also see Dr. Shale to have the tissue expanders filled for the first time since surgery. Melissa will have a chemo consult with Dr. Miranda on December 26th. He is the Dr. that she works for and has been very proactive, kind and helpful. At this appointment a plan for length and strength of chemo will be determined. Chemo will probably start the following week. 
At this point Melissa is thankful to have some visitors, however it is important to check first and remember to keep visits brief! This comes straight from Melissa so please use your best judgement. She is such a people person and it does her good to have interaction but too much will be bad. Now that she is working she will likely be worn out when she is home. It is good to notice if she is using a lot of energy in order to visit with you. These things may seem obvious, but they have to be said. 
Melissa says "I can't lift my arms above my head so hugs are tough - know I love you though! We are so grateful for food, cards, love, and funds. We feel incredibly blessed! Thank you all!"

There have been over 4,000 views of this blog, more than 500 were on the day of surgery! I know many people are checking often to see what is new and there are people who only know Melissa through the blog, but are still touched by her story and are keeping her in their thoughts and prayers. Thank you all for your support! It is so amazing to see what an impact one person can make! It warms my heart and shows what a fabulous community we live in! ~ Nicole
P.S. Remember, if you want to donate to the David's family, there is an account in Melissa's name set up at D.L.Evans Bank.

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Dr. Visits Today

This morning Melissa and Tyler met with a representative of the American Cancer Society. She visited with them and offered some publications on post cancer treatment and breast cancer questions that are frequently overlooked. She also discussed with them some options the hospital had for wigs and make up that would be donated  by the American Cancer Society. They then met with Dr. Shale, he was pleased with the way the drains have been draining and removed two of them. He then looked at the incisions from the mastectomy and the port placement and was happy with the way they were healing. He indicated that it would still be a couple more weeks before any expander filling could be done. He also said that Melissa could not return to work until all drains have been removed. She still has all of the restrictions on arm lifting. Next they met with Dr. Eddie Jordan. He gave them the official doctors records from both surgeons and from the pathology. He also added a prescription for coumadin. He said it is a very small dose just to prevent clotting around the port. That is probably the last appointment with him, unless they have any specific questions that involve him, which is rather unfortunate because he has been quite the character. He greeted Melissa "What's up girlfriend" as he entered the room and told her she was a cool chick. Both doctors indicated that they felt chemotherapy was going to be needed. This is due to her young age even though Pathology looked clear. They also indicated that radiation may not be necessary but they wanted Dr. Ingersoll to make the final call. Melissa, Tyler and family would like to thank everybody for their kind thoughts, prayers and fasting. They have been greatly felt and appreciated. Melissa's next appointment will be on Tuesday to see about removing the third drain tube.